This That and Everything in between

" But I could never meet you again " "In the garden of memories, in the palace of dreams ,that is where you and I shall meet" "But you know it is not real" "Who is to say which is which " Not my own , the above. My own, the below. If you have met someone and never wanted to be away from them ,yet circumstances made you not meet ever again, you see them in the dreams ,never tangible even in dreams, always elusive that happiness even in dreams. Fortunate are those who take a decision and own it up .Misery is not being poor or unsuccessful, misery is what you bring to yourself when you can not let go off a dream or life that you wished you had pursued. But reality is a matrix, in fact everything in the universe is, nothing is real the next minute, it was a memory, a past but nonetheless true then. I see you in my dreams, who is to say that it is only a dream? You are real there. You told me to blog, you should know I still do, even if it is not regu

The moment you fall in a dreamless sleep, everything goes dark, you would not realise, it  was dark unless you wake up and your senses work. If they don't, you might be still sleeping endlessly. But, the universe was apparently functioning without you. You might have a phd in physics, it still happens to you. On the other hand, you wake up and sense the world, do your daily pooja religiously, pray to God for waking you up, appease the God when he might be angry and hope he will bring you wealth, health and happiness. You are deeply religious, align with your stars, offer part of wealth to God in lieu of more, so God also gives only when you give? Few others do the extreme and hurt things that don't align with them.   Did he actually ask you to kill, loot and hurt in his name?  Most of constructs surrounding religion and God came up to tame the mind for  the uninitiated and definitely not for the self actualising. That said, I have been surprised to see double doctorates and mos

 Big Boss Season 4 :Happy to have wasted my time on this !!! :) I am seeing this season of Big Boss Tamil S4 from the very week as a very objective, observant and unbiased viewer. I understand that it is just a TV show at the end of the day, but it is also a microcosm of society and life in general, I did not even know half the people in that show since I do not follow Tamil cinema/TV industry to a level of an average Tamil person. My General Knowledge in that area is pretty abysmal. Yet, I became an Aari fan in the course of the show and did not start out as one. My aim is not to belittle others but just to celebrate this human who exhibited the qualities that is very much needed to go through life. Someone think why people are crazy of him, the contestants are not able to comprehend why people love him, and they are not even able to accept that many people love him (more than 50% of the votes were for him at the very least for a fact). If you do want to understand why this might be